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Brendan Burke, Son Of Leafs GM Brian Burke, Dies In Car Accident

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Brendan Burke, the son of Maple Leafs GM Brian Burke, passed away on Friday. Burke made his homosexuality public in December and his bravery helped and continues to help people who suffer through the hardships of living a gay life in sports.

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More Than One Tragedy: Mark Reedy, Friend Of Brendan, Also Dies In Wreck

When people in the spotlight die, it becomes national news. We mourn, we pray and we pass along condolences despite usually never knowing the victim or his family personally. We do this because we feel some bond with those people, though, as is the case with the passing of Brendan Burke.

But too often in situations like this, we over look the life of other victims. That was also the case last night, as Burke’s friend Mark Reedy also died in the tragic two car accident that killed Burke.

SB Nation’s Maple Leafs blog, Pension Plan Puppets, published the words of one of Reedy’s friends on Saturday afternoon. They appear below.

Mark Adams Reedy was one of the most genuinely nice people that I have ever have had the pleasure of knowing. Concerned with the well being of all that he knew, Mark was never on a foul note with any of his acquaintances or friends.

A talented athlete (2 time high school State champion runner up in diving in Michigan and accomplished soccer player), as well as a dedicated student who devoted much of his time to his studies, Mark was a person that many parents can only hope their children can be. An individual that was able to lighten even the foulest mood, Mark was an optimistic person to the core. Such a horrible occurrence could not have happened to a more undeserving person.

His thoughts are with myself and all that knew him, and the love towards him is undying. Being able to know and befriend Mark has been an absolute privilege over the past 12 years. An absolute God-send to humanity, it is truly a tragedy to see such an amazing young man come to such an unfortunate end.

Born on March 25th, 1991, Mark grew up and resided in Bloomfield Hills, Michigan for the duration of his life barring the last 6 months in East Lansing. He attended Hickory Grove Elementary School, East Hills Middle School, and Bloomfield Hills Lahser High School, graduating in June, 2009, to attend Michigan State University. He is survived by his loving and supportive family; Clifford, Marcia, Megan, and Michelle (Father, mother, and sisters; respectively).

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Brendan Burke, Son Of Leafs' GM Brian Burke, Dies In Car Accident

The hockey world was touched by the story of Brendan Burke, the son of Toronto Maple Leafs general manager Brian Burke, this past December when ESPN.com ran a touching piece about his relationship with his father and his homosexuality.

Brendan passed away Friday from injuries suffered during a car accident in snow-ravaged Indiana. He was 21 years old.

Brendan's bravery was not encapsulated just by the fact that he came out to his rugged father Brian, but also in the political and social ramifications his coming out caused in his own life and the world of sport. Brendan wasn't just the son of a hockey icon; he also worked on the staff of the Miami University of Ohio's men's hockey team, so he encountered these issues every single day of his professional life.

It's no secret that homosexuality in sports is a topic that simply isn't discussed comfortably. It's an issue that we haven't yet figured out how to tackle in our society, and because of that, those like Brendan who are victims of abuse either directly or indirectly on a daily basis, are often times not brave enough to be open with their lifestyle.

But what many people simply don't have the courage to do, Brendan embraced with open arms. In early November of last year, a writer at USA Today and a former hockey player named Justin Bourne penned an article about the closeted nature of homosexuality in hockey and the rampant display of homophobia that overwhelms it's locker rooms.

Here's some of what Bourne had to say:

In my days as a hockey player, I did nothing but contribute to hockey's culture of homophobia and prejudice against gays. I used gay slurs more times than I'd like to admit. Six months after I left my last professional locker room, I felt a twinge of regret, followed by a full-out, stomach punch of regret. And by the time I finished the first draft of this column, I was disgusted with myself.

Brendan read Bourne's column and reached out. In an interview with Yahoo!'s Puck Daddy, Bourne said that Brendan sent him an email sharing his story, saying that he appreciated what Bourne had to say. The writer then asked Brendan if he could share his story. He agreed, but soon after he received the opportunity to take his story to the pages of ESPN.com. The idea of more eyes seeing the story engaged Brendan.

He not only opted to take his hardship-filled story -- and therefore the story of thousands of people in the sporting world -- to the media, but he actually decided to have it published on a platform where more people would see it. The word bravery, it seems, doesn't do Brendan justice.

The results of his bravery are not yet complete. It's only been a few months since his story became widely known, but by going public with it, he put a human face on an issue that deeply pains people every single day. The love that he and his father showed each other in public was truly heartwarming, forcing us to ask that if the gruff, aggressive, truculent Brian can accept a gay son, then why can't anybody?

Brendan may be gone now, but his father's love for him regardless of his sexual orientation and regardless of his humanely presence on Earth still eclipse all the hatred that gay people in sports suffer through everyday. Their example will continue to help to transcend the hatred and make the hockey world a safe place for all people.

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